guys

i finished my late night camping to rush er mo zai shen bian and was utterly disappointed at the ending..felt so CHEATED LA!! the ending sucks like dunno wat please! i was like, huh! like that end alr? how could she let him go off like that?! dun she feel anything?! was so pissed that i couldnt sleep and was fuming to god abt it..gosh!! stupid taiwan dramas! never haf any satisfying ending at all! juz had to spoilt it in the end :(:(:( grrrrr..

no more taiwan drama for the now! eh wait, theres summer x summer with zheng yuan chang..hmmm i might haf to change that statement soon..

while watching the show, a rather weird tot popped into my mind while watching one of the scenes..it was this scene where a grp of guy frens came back after a quarrel and silently juz did watever they did before they left in a sour mood..dun really know how to explain, but at that time, i somehow wished that i were a guy..

maybe due to my ignorance of a guy, or juz bec im a female, sometimes the weird mentality of the opposite sex do surprise mi in the way it affects their reaction..not being one myself, the only knowledge of how guys feel and tink at certain situations are based on my observance and first-hand information from a few of my trusty guy frens whom haf decided to divulge some secrets of their kind..one of the few times when i wish i were a guy, is when i haf some friction with my frens..

i rmb there were certain times where i quarrelled with my frens, or i haf some sort of disagreement and i seek the advice of the opposite gender, and most of the remarks i got was..go to the person, trash it out, bash him/her den continue being frens lor..its like, so simple that it somehow stuns my female mind..to our kind, there is no such thing as trashing out and then acting as tho this thing has never happened before and be like normal..to us, its like..this person did this to me!! betrayal, hypocrite, loser, im not gonna trust her anymore, she doesnt deserve my frenship..u expect mi to forgive the person!? i might forgive, but things will never be the same anymore..NEVER u get it?!

i tell that to my guy frens, and they go, huh? den how u wan things to end up as? aiya, y so difficult, juz like that lor..ppl will step on each other's toes at some point in time wat..its either u trash out den keep a good fren, or lose that good fren lor..y wan to lose? keep la..

sounds unbelievable simple doesnt it? sounds so simple, that it wouldnt work out at all..yet, i tried it..and to my astonishment! things did work out juz fine indeed!! and i realise to my amazement, that this method of settling disagreements or conflicts uses less energy and emotions then the ones gurls use..i used to tink that it would be so hard to face the person and act like normal..but maybe simple things haf a way of resulting in simple endings..i realise, that it isnt that hard to act normal after all..and, things somehow are, really turning out fine :D

haha, ive applied this method to much more situations after that..of course, i let my female instinct scream out sometimes at the unjust and the hell the other party shld haf to pay for making mi suffer like this..but in the end, the appeal of a happy ending, wins over the angry ending..ah, to be a guy and to react like one in times, it isnt such a bad thing after all..

hah, maybe this part only applies to certain guys, or maybe it doesnt describe guys at all..i wouldnt know..its juz the advice i got from a few of my opposite gender frens..its rather surprising how the advice remains consistent tho they dun know one another..how would i know? im a girl after all..